FPC...first off, let me say that overall, I actually agree with most of what you have said here. It is just a matter, for me, of is this appropriate forum?Originally posted by FasterPussycat
[Bi don't agree. "tearing down the deep beliefs of others" can also be interpreted as discussion, debate and detailed exploration of the issues. this is "of no benefit to any of us"?? no way do i agree with this. ANY insight gained from all this might help us get some leverage on all this complexity, and this is worth the effort imo. (whether that issue be "god" or trading).
furthermore, if your beliefs get torn down then those beliefs were on shaky ground to begin with. and who wants to live their lives on shaky grounds? not me! [/B]
Also, "trying to tear down,..etc" is very different from "tearing down"...you quote me somewhat out of context.
"discussion, debate, and detailed exploration"....never said it was of "no benefit"....if my remarks were construed that way, I apologize. My objection is really to the disparagement of other's beliefs, that they are entitled to whether we agree or disagree. We can argue, we can agree to disagree. I just see no sense in many of the statements that seem only to be intended to insult and agitate. I agree with you that "ANY insight gained"...etc., can be constructive. My point was only that somehow this has gotten beyond that, and that it has gotten personal in too many instances. A good debater can argue either side of an issue. That is not what has been going on here.
Maybe I am at a big advantage and therefore cannot get as passionate about some of these issues.....because I really don't care. I mentioned before that I was widowed very young. That changes one's perspective. I have made and lost a lot of money over the years as well. I saw my son lose his mom when he was too young to handle it and too old to forget it. I have found love again and re-created my life. Was there a divine plan? Was I master of my own destiny? Was it luck (good or bad)? I don't know. I just make the best of the hand I am dealt. I will debate any issue you care just for the exercise of the mind. But I don't see slamming someones beliefs as debate. I see it as hurtful intent.