If you do exchange Flex you can visit the OCC site, it links from the FLEX page and see what has traded. Most of it is under 5 years and a small percentage is longer - you can go out as long as 15years with Flex. Heavily dominated by index names and deal stocks. Assume your entry will be OK and you will be raped if you go to exit very early.
You don't have to enter an order to get a sense of the market - they do a RFQ, but don't expect to get filled if you do a ton of RFQs with trading.
interesting... with spreads as wide as they are LEAPS (especially less liquid names), sounds like the spread game is even worse on these products. i.e. underlying has move a lot before the position is profitable