Props to the op for starting this thread. I think I'll share something with you guys. This is my 3rd year of trading, and in the this time I have seen many traders come and go. I began trading at a prop shop or trading arcade where many traders were hired and i would say 1-2 out of 10 ended up making it their 2nd year and beyond. Now, I know trading your own money is different than trading at a prop company but I would say that one of the most important thing that new traders in general must overcome is the monetary aspect of trading. When traders think about the money in their p&l whether up or down that is when mistakes happen and traders deviate from their plan( and not having a plan is another crucial mistake that Ive made and Ive seen others make as well).
I mean all traders lose money to begin with, kind of like tuition for learning the game of trading. Anyone who says they started off making money right off the bat is either lying or got lucky and will lose their ass in the future. Its just the nature of the game. The best traders at my old firm were people who lost the largest sums of money their 1st yr. Of course these are the traders who LEARNED from their mistakes. For me, you can tell me in a trading class what not to do like add to loser with no reason or something stupid like that but if I dont experience: adding to a loser, trading too much size, leaving a position with no stop, etc.. without any bad consequence of these actions I will do them agian until I am proven that what I am doing is wrong. This is why I think to become a great trader you have to (hopefuly in the beginning of your career) do something extremly stupid, and hopefully lose money, to keep your trading ego in check.
Just to give you an example of what I mean is I remember during my 1st year trading their was a FOMC meeting and I was trading a fixed income product. At the time I was allowed to trade 2 contracts, the rate announcement comes out market goes crazy nothing in the book, and rallies i try to get long for a quick trade, click 4 times miss everytime but the last. Yes I'm filled! Oh shit the market reversed hard I filled on 8 contracts wtf???? market is a half point lower!!!! Do you think I ever tried to put a trade on after a fomc announcement? Do you think I wouldve if that trade turned out to be the biggest $$$ amount winner I had had up to the point.
Moral of the story losers are good! Once you love the losers that you have more than your winners and learn from why you took that loser, etc...you will become a better trader. I mean the reason why so many fail(system and discretionary) is because they dont have the capital to withstand the swings and drawdowns that are involved. Dont trade too much size! Dont think I doing this to get rich quick...you will fail if you think this way.
Thats all for now gl all!