Quote from marky1:
Ok let's call it a day then, really not trying to make you look dumb by any means, just trying to pass on what I know. With the greatest of respect I am hung up on terminology (and most traders in Europe are) because as you have discovered it's all too easy for mistakes to be made if things are not made perfectly clear. It may help you in the future to think along the lines of stop loss being an order in your head, but giving it is a stop,a nd if neccesary making it an OCO with a bid or offer - may protect against more mistakes in the future.