Quote from Eric215:
Though I sympathize with Sandybestdog's misfortunes I would have to disagree that there is a lot to learn from the post you cite. His posts protrude more of a "everything bad happens to me and that's just the way it is" victim mentality. I could write stories of misfortune experienced by people that I personally know and if you dig down enough under the surface you will find how they are in large part responsible for creating their situations, if not just from their attitude alone. People are given situations and there are an infinite number of ways to respond to them, but the response each individual makes means everything. Using a guy that lost his business because of tight credit and the poor economy is bad example. I could tell a story about a guy who lost his business but before hand had made 50 sales calls a day to expand a business on the side for a second stream of income. The second guy thrives in 09 with a poor economy and the first guy fails and blames it on luck. Try telling the second guy who goes on to make millions in his second business that he got lucky.
Let me just be clear. I am by no means misfortunate. I have 2 legs, 2 arms, one good eye, a roof over my head, food, and health insurance. I have however not been able to improve my financial situation no matter what I try or hard I work. On top of that, the cost of living is continuously rising, even though it seems wages for a lot of people are stagnant or even decreasing.
I have discussed on ET a of lot how I didnât go the traditional route that most people do. I donât want a job, I always wanted to create the job. Inevitable this requires capital, risk, persistence. But what I have found each time I fail and try again, is that jobs I used to use to save money are shrinking. At the same time the cost of living never stops going up. So Iâm not only working hard to try to get ahead, itâs also a race against the clock. And itâs a race Iâm losing. With our current policyâs, things are only going to get worse. People who work full time jobs are now finding that that barely covers the essentials, if that, and have turned to credit cards to make up for it. TraderAntiChrist and the like will have you believe that this whole mess was created because everybody thought they deserved a big screen tv and a nice house. There may be some truth to that, but what do you think causes more bankruptcyâs? People buying big screen tvâs or medical bills. People who talk like that sound like those people making a big deal over the AIG execs getting 160 million when they owe the government 160 billion. Look at the big picture.
I guess what I mean is that Bill Gates was a smart guy and went into business and made billions. But there was probably just as many people out there who were even smarter and had a better product and would have brought more value to this world. But they didnât make it, Gates did. Thatâs just the way it worked out. Not everybody can be rich. But what I hear a lot of around here, is that all those people who didnât make it, are losers who deserve to live in poverty because theyâre failures and scum of the earth. I donât think riches should be given to them by any means, but at least they could go work for Gates and make a decent living. They still can bring value. Thatâs the way it used to be, but now people like Gates, have decided that a mansion, beach house, Rolls Royce, and country club membership is not enough. They now need a Ferrari, ski lodge, and a little something for the mistress. In order to get this, he skims dozens of little guys. He cuts their wages. He ships their jobs to Mexico and ships Mexicans here to work jobs that he claims âhe canât get Americans to do.â He prints money out of thin air and gets government contracts that he overcharges on. All of this is of course paid for by the little guy who now is struggling to just stay afloat. He then turns to credit cards to pay his bills, which of course Gates is more than willing to give him. Then Gates still hasnât made enough money, so he jacks the interest rate to 29%. Then when he defaults, TraderAntiChrist goes on his verbal rampage. Iâm not saying people havenât made mistakes, but when looking at this current economic crisis, try looking at the bigger picture before passing judgement. Our job markets are crumbling and then you wonder why we get in situations like these. We need to reexamine our policyâs.