Options ARE the superior way to trade with less risk fellas, all you have to do is take the time to learn them and use them properly. One of the biggest mistakes I see is people buying options that are out of the money and too near of a term timewise. I can't peak for other options guys but I buy puts and calls that are at the money or just slightly in the money, and go out in time several months.
The last play I made was buying 20 Valero $62.50 June calls on 3/20, paying $2.90. I sold them yesterday; 5 at $4.10, 5 at $4.17, and 10 at $4.40. Now lets take a look at my risk, I was able to control 2,000 shares of valero for a total risk and investment of $5,800.
It would have cost you $125,000 unmargined to control the same position, with a total risk of $125,000 (the extreme event, not gonna happen). What would be more likely is that some kind of internal event would cause the share price to drop $5 or $10. Those holding the shares are now out the actual magnitude of the move, my options are out less than the $2.90 I payed for them because they will still carry some time premium of roughly $1 in this time and instance, making my loss $1.90.
Now to make a successful trade in either method, you have to make the right directional bet, options won't do that for you, but you can dial down your risk profile with them and get great leverage when you make correct directional bets.
Anyone that thinks options are riskier than shares just doesn't understand options and would do themselves a great service to fully learn them.