The more I go through the process (wrapping up my 3rd year now)... and as I find some success (tripling my AUM in the past 12 months, doubling over the past 3-4 months alone)...
I really see it from both sides. The rewards are so obvious, but the challenges are also huge.
My first piece of advice to up and coming managers is: don't force it. If you talk to 10 prospective investors and none are interested, then you simply aren't ready for that class of investors yet. Don't waste your time trying to pitch to more people until you address whatever your deficiency is.
What I have found is, if a couple from a particular category actually invest... then you will find probably EVERYONE from that category will be equally interested . For example, for years I've been trying to pitch to smaller FoF and family offices (even attending a family office conference). Zero success; some due dil calls, but no serious interest. Total waste of time.
In contrast, just a few months after I finally got one investor from that category... I now have 5-8 invested, and probably another 6-8 in the pipeline. And I'm reasonably confident that I'll get a steady supply of investors in this category if I maintain my performance. Why? They're not lemmings, few know others are investing. It's more just a function of, most investors work with very similar criteria. If you are attractive to a few, then you will probably be attractive to many. (And the inverse is also true.)
So, how do you get started from zero (or any number < $1 mm)? I really don't know. I think that's incredibly difficult. Other than a risk-seeking gambler (who probably exist - but I haven't run into), I really don't know any investors with real money who are looking for managers in that category. Why should they, when they can find excellent managers with established track records?
Quite simply, no one with millions in assets is looking to get 100% returns... they don't need 100% returns to improve their lifestyle. They just need to make sure they don't LOSE their existing assets. If I have $10 million to invest, and I can find a dependable manager who makes me 15% a year (with low probability of draw-down)... that's great. Who wouldn't be happy with $1.5 million a year? Would they really be happier with $3 million or $5 million a year, if those 30-50% returns brought with it the risks of losing their nest egg, and having to *work* again? (And you will hear that again and again from wealthier investors... their financial goals often boil down to a simple concept: how can they never work again.)
I'm not trying to be pessimistic, these are just my thoughts at this point in my career. I'm very fortunate to have started with what I did, and even then I found it rather difficult to *want* to persist to where I am now. Things are looking up right at this moment, but I'd be the first to tell you that I'm always 2-3 months away from closing my business depending on how the market behaves.
Best of luck to anyone pursuing this as a career.