Quote from stevegee58:
One of my many failings is that I become wed to positions. I'm gradually learning to not get attached but let the losers go and not look back. Just take the losses and keep your head down waiting for the next opportunity. I'm one of those guys who keeps old losses on a quotetracker watch list so I can torture myself when they turn around.
With all due respect to you, Stevegee58, you really need to quit that habit.
All joking aside, you really need to stop doing this. It serves no purpose, and might even hinder your ability to think clearly before entering (or exiting) a trade. Allowing yourself to become married to a position most certainly decreases your capital. You do not need to try to stop. You do not need to work on stopping, and you don't need to attempt to stop. You simply need to stop - immediately - allowing yourself to become married to positions.In contrast, I fall at the opposite end of the spectrum. If a trade doesn't work out as expected, I close the position. Not only do I never allow myself to become married to a position, I can't even tell you the names of 90% of the companies in the Final Universe. True Story. I trade symbols. I don't know the company names. I don't even know in what industry they reside or what products the make. I might occasionally remember a name from the top of a chart, but that is it.
As Jack says, "this isn't about being right; It's about making money." I wasn't 'right' because I traded TWGP, the market was right. I simply traded on the same side as the market. The market does its job, and we do ours. Our job description does not include getting married to positions.
Now, go delete those losers out of Quotetracker and forget about them. Once you debrief from a trade, you should only remeber the lessons learned, not the amount of money won or lost.
Good Trading to you all.
- Spydertrader