It is amazing that the unvoluntary separation we all went through , got us to develop a bond, and deep down we all care for each others.
The trudaing pressure is so huge, that one crawled under the pressure, and did what he needed to do to survive trudaing, betraying the unwritten rules of trudaing. He has to realise some understand, and we will all understand once we all get the facts. The murkait puts people in very difficult situations.
It will be nice when we all celebrate that we managed to get through these difficult murkait situations.