rumours & gossips:
I think we can all agree that it is easy to 'cut' and 'paste' a live conversation to make it mean anything. This is called "leading questionning". The girl you refer to is my niece !!!
I think we can all agree that any face2face organised with a lookalike is never 'innocent'.
I repeat again : I always proved my trading first. So anybody else was a look-alike!!!!
Same clothes , but lookalike.
Yes we all got the negative consequences and all of us had to cope as they could. I understand this fully, and this has developed in myself very deep feelings as I did a lot of psychological/spiritual work. Those with an emptiness : what happened is you got bombarded with consistent pain due to being mislead, being played with, being disappointed, etc. This constant addition of emotional crap, built and you burried your feelings and your true nature. Just a lot of psychological/spiritual "dejunking" will restore your true emotions.
www.dhamma.org is a very good tool to start to help remove the layers of hurt.
Let us thank the sites like ET and the other 4 other websites that allowed us to keep informed about what was going on.
Now we just have to rebuild on strong foundations this time.
Second time luck exist. Just allow yourself to take a mental break.
And obviously, I think we all agree that it is best to avoid like the plague mentally imbalanced females.