"spirituality" videos - Part II
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Funny that hookers at 5,000+ a night do not like people to know what they are up to.
I wonder why.
Now the poor lads who get taken out, please do not blame all women as being "bitches", just understand that if you go with a hooker, you get finished 'hooker-style'
. That you are emotionally damaged and no normal gal in her right mind would dream of going out with you is just temporary. Get help, and get the bad stuff off your personality, and you'll see very good looking , mentally healthy gal flocking to you. 
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Just learned the lesson, and next time, do check - the sister and parents would have let you know about the prostituta real activities. Some do it to provide 'luxury' and a luxurious lifestyle for their "daddy" . And greed makes it difficult for them to stop. So you got played, learn the lesson, get some psy help.
I wonder why.
Now the poor lads who get taken out, please do not blame all women as being "bitches", just understand that if you go with a hooker, you get finished 'hooker-style'
. That you are emotionally damaged and no normal gal in her right mind would dream of going out with you is just temporary. Get help, and get the bad stuff off your personality, and you'll see very good looking , mentally healthy gal flocking to you. . Just learned the lesson, and next time, do check - the sister and parents would have let you know about the prostituta real activities. Some do it to provide 'luxury' and a luxurious lifestyle for their "daddy" . And greed makes it difficult for them to stop. So you got played, learn the lesson, get some psy help.
back to slander-libel-defamation : this goes with invasion of privacy and harassment as well. I am realising that these type of people are deep down criminally minded somewhere.
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Got a lot of examples/cases to read about this slander-defamation-scapegoating.
I wish the coach started his work long ago. Ignorance is indeed not bliss. .
I am also glad we have now a police case number - just in case.
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Step by step all is falling in place. The real best thing is this coming
100,000 bonus for anonymous whistleblowers. .
Nice thing about that is it can take as long as needed. .
Got a lot of examples/cases to read about this slander-defamation-scapegoating.
I wish the coach started his work long ago. Ignorance is indeed not bliss.
. I am also glad we have now a police case number - just in case.
.Step by step all is falling in place. The real best thing is this coming
100,000 bonus for anonymous whistleblowers.
.Nice thing about that is it can take as long as needed.
.Hi zdreg,
You are welcomed.
Just realise that this is really about a place to
work on psychology/spirituality issues that can affect a trader.
Don't worry about monologue : the thread get feedback on
other sites ( 4 other sites). And as I am travelling, it is
a good way to get the psy/spirituality work done.
Regarding hthe 10minutes meditation - every 2 hours
I was looking to it , as some scientist have found out that
a 10minutes -mind rest allow the mind to be as refreshed
as if one just awoke, thsi effect lasting for 155 minutes.
Now, reaching goals fast is a good thing. But sometimes, one
has to understand the "psychological/spiritual" contex to clear
up a lot of junk - obstacles - , and these need to be cleared
when looking to reach a given target.
As explained in this thread, I had to deal for 3 years with some
'severe form of harassment' from very mentally ill people.
And this obstacle had first to be dealt with.
Regards
Basically, the real issue is the prostituta did not have the chance to be referred to
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-clinic-treating-britains-worst-2070467
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Inside the clinic treating Britain's worst stalkers
21 Jul 2013 00:01
50 offenders each year visit the National Stalking Clinic for treatment
...
ucked away out of sight at a busy hospital is an eerily quiet modern building.
While ambulances queue at the A&E department and expectant mums sign in at the nearby maternity unit, the patients who use this place in the grounds of a Victorian childrenâs home prefer to slip in unnoticed.
Because they are stalkers.
This is the one place in Britain where the worst offenders are given last-chance treatment for their terrifying obsession.
Dr Frank Farnham is at the helm. He is a forensic psychiatrist who has worked with criminal minds for two decades.
And he needs every ounce of his experience to get into the heads of patients like Michael.
He took a liking to a perfect stranger in the street two years ago and fabricated a romance with her.
Michael soon felt he was in a relationship with a woman heâs never dated or kissed.
So he began stalking her.
It has cost him his wife, house and job â and put him behind bars twice.
Then there is obsessive Richard who couldnât cope with his break-up, so he bombarded his ex with presents â including a full-sized coffin.
And Jamie, who wanted a girlfriend so badly he drilled holes in his bedroom floor and watched the neighbours day and night for relationship tips.
According to 2012 Home Office statistics, nearly a fifth of women and 10 per cent of men say their lives have been blighted by stalkers like these.
About 20 a year are jailed for more than 12 months and others are given shortened or community sentences.
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http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-clinic-treating-britains-worst-2070467
http://webcache.googleusercontent.c...67+mirror.co.uk+stalking+clinic&gbv=2&ct=clnk
Inside the clinic treating Britain's worst stalkers
21 Jul 2013 00:01
50 offenders each year visit the National Stalking Clinic for treatment
...
ucked away out of sight at a busy hospital is an eerily quiet modern building.
While ambulances queue at the A&E department and expectant mums sign in at the nearby maternity unit, the patients who use this place in the grounds of a Victorian childrenâs home prefer to slip in unnoticed.
Because they are stalkers.
This is the one place in Britain where the worst offenders are given last-chance treatment for their terrifying obsession.
Dr Frank Farnham is at the helm. He is a forensic psychiatrist who has worked with criminal minds for two decades.
And he needs every ounce of his experience to get into the heads of patients like Michael.
He took a liking to a perfect stranger in the street two years ago and fabricated a romance with her.
Michael soon felt he was in a relationship with a woman heâs never dated or kissed.
So he began stalking her.
It has cost him his wife, house and job â and put him behind bars twice.
Then there is obsessive Richard who couldnât cope with his break-up, so he bombarded his ex with presents â including a full-sized coffin.
And Jamie, who wanted a girlfriend so badly he drilled holes in his bedroom floor and watched the neighbours day and night for relationship tips.
According to 2012 Home Office statistics, nearly a fifth of women and 10 per cent of men say their lives have been blighted by stalkers like these.
About 20 a year are jailed for more than 12 months and others are given shortened or community sentences.
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But for 50 offenders each year the National Stalking Clinic provides an alternative, which Dr Farnham insists can reduce repeat offences.
âFor the first time, we are able to offer tailored mental health care rather than just locking them up and delaying their next offence for a few months,â he says, buzzing us through the clinicâs heavy doors and into a treatment room.
There are no cameras allowed on the wards and mobile phones must be handed in to security. It is like visiting a prison. Ironic, considering it exists to reduce custodial sentences.
Dr Farnham says: âFor delusional patients, the therapy comes alongside closely monitored medication to treat the underlying psychiatric issues.
âThat doesnât necessarily happen in a prison. Itâs a big step forward that the law has finally recognised the severity of stalking as a crime, but also _understands the need for treatment.
âStalking can be a symptom of many serious problems including _schizophrenia, depression and even autism. _Medical attention is often a better option than prison for the _offender, the victim and the public.â
Treatment at the clinic costs £6,000 for six months. Sending a person to jail for the same period costs more than four times as much.
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But for 50 offenders each year the National Stalking Clinic provides an alternative, which Dr Farnham insists can reduce repeat offences.
âFor the first time, we are able to offer tailored mental health care rather than just locking them up and delaying their next offence for a few months,â he says, buzzing us through the clinicâs heavy doors and into a treatment room.
There are no cameras allowed on the wards and mobile phones must be handed in to security. It is like visiting a prison. Ironic, considering it exists to reduce custodial sentences.
Dr Farnham says: âFor delusional patients, the therapy comes alongside closely monitored medication to treat the underlying psychiatric issues.
âThat doesnât necessarily happen in a prison. Itâs a big step forward that the law has finally recognised the severity of stalking as a crime, but also _understands the need for treatment.
âStalking can be a symptom of many serious problems including _schizophrenia, depression and even autism. _Medical attention is often a better option than prison for the _offender, the victim and the public.â
Treatment at the clinic costs £6,000 for six months. Sending a person to jail for the same period costs more than four times as much.
... article continues here ...
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-clinic-treating-britains-worst-2070467
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It sounds like a no-brainer, but the clinic is still in a pilot phase, _commissioned on a case-by-case basis by the Crown Prosecution Service. Each case must have displayed âpersistent and unwanted attention which causes fear in the victimâ.
Dr Farnham calls 40-year-old Michael a âdelusional romanticâ. But there is no romance involved with patients like these. In fact, sometimes they can be the most persistent.
âPatients like Michael are _completely delusional and have no idea the _relationship with the victim isnât real,â says Dr Farnham.
âItâs known as eroto-mania. They _account for around 10 to 15 per cent of the offenders we see here.â
Part of Michaelâs weekly therapy is to work through why he feels he is in a relationship, which he insists is going well because she has been sending him âsignsâ that show she loves him.
A billboard near his home has _recently changed from advertising cars to Lynx aftershave. Michael is adamant his victim arranged it as a message for him to keep trying to win her affections. He also spotted a familiar number plate on his way to work one day and insisted sheâd planted it as a token of her love. But when asked when his stalking is going to stop, Michael answers: âThe path of true love never runs smooth.â
Dr Farnham insists that for patients like him, the clinic really is a last chance to get past their problems. But the _largest number of stalkers at the clinic are _offenders like Richard.
He was prescribed nine months of weekly therapy sessions under the conditions of a community order after being convicted of stalking his ex last year. He falls into the category Dr _Farnham calls rejected lovers.
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-clinic-treating-britains-worst-2070467
...
It sounds like a no-brainer, but the clinic is still in a pilot phase, _commissioned on a case-by-case basis by the Crown Prosecution Service. Each case must have displayed âpersistent and unwanted attention which causes fear in the victimâ.
Dr Farnham calls 40-year-old Michael a âdelusional romanticâ. But there is no romance involved with patients like these. In fact, sometimes they can be the most persistent.
âPatients like Michael are _completely delusional and have no idea the _relationship with the victim isnât real,â says Dr Farnham.
âItâs known as eroto-mania. They _account for around 10 to 15 per cent of the offenders we see here.â
Part of Michaelâs weekly therapy is to work through why he feels he is in a relationship, which he insists is going well because she has been sending him âsignsâ that show she loves him.
A billboard near his home has _recently changed from advertising cars to Lynx aftershave. Michael is adamant his victim arranged it as a message for him to keep trying to win her affections. He also spotted a familiar number plate on his way to work one day and insisted sheâd planted it as a token of her love. But when asked when his stalking is going to stop, Michael answers: âThe path of true love never runs smooth.â
Dr Farnham insists that for patients like him, the clinic really is a last chance to get past their problems. But the _largest number of stalkers at the clinic are _offenders like Richard.
He was prescribed nine months of weekly therapy sessions under the conditions of a community order after being convicted of stalking his ex last year. He falls into the category Dr _Farnham calls rejected lovers.
... article continues here ...
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-clinic-treating-britains-worst-2070467
...
Dr Farnham says: âFor delusional patients, the therapy comes alongside closely monitored medication to treat the underlying psychiatric issues.
âThat doesnât necessarily happen in a prison. Itâs a big step forward that the law has finally recognised the severity of stalking as a crime, but also _understands the need for treatment.
âStalking can be a symptom of many serious problems including _schizophrenia, depression and even autism. _Medical attention is often a better option than prison for the _offender, the victim and the public.â
Treatment at the clinic costs £6,000 for six months. Sending a person to jail for the same period costs more than four times as much.
It sounds like a no-brainer, but the clinic is still in a pilot phase, _commissioned on a case-by-case basis by the Crown Prosecution Service. Each case must have displayed âpersistent and unwanted attention which causes fear in the victimâ.
Dr Farnham calls 40-year-old Michael a âdelusional romanticâ. But there is no romance involved with patients like these. In fact, sometimes they can be the most persistent.
âPatients like Michael are _completely delusional and have no idea the _relationship with the victim isnât real,â says Dr Farnham.
âItâs known as eroto-mania. They _account for around 10 to 15 per cent of the offenders we see here.â
Part of Michaelâs weekly therapy is to work through why he feels he is in a relationship, which he insists is going well because she has been sending him âsignsâ that show she loves him.
A billboard near his home has _recently changed from advertising cars to Lynx aftershave. Michael is adamant his victim arranged it as a message for him to keep trying to win her affections. He also spotted a familiar number plate on his way to work one day and insisted sheâd planted it as a token of her love. But when asked when his stalking is going to stop, Michael answers: âThe path of true love never runs smooth.â
Dr Farnham insists that for patients like him, the clinic really is a last chance to get past their problems. But the _largest number of stalkers at the clinic are _offenders like Richard.
He was prescribed nine months of weekly therapy sessions under the conditions of a community order after being convicted of stalking his ex last year. He falls into the category Dr _Farnham calls rejected lovers.
He says: âThey are often very angry about the end of the relationship and will do anything to get their partner back.â
Richard started by leaving a bunch of flowers on his victimâs windscreen every day after they split. When that didnât work, he left four bunches.
When his ex ignored his calls and texts he graduated to sending a pizza delivery at the same time every evening or taxis in the middle of the night.
âTo him it was a way of getting inside her world and it was very unsettling for her,â says Dr Farnham. In a final act of anger, Richard ordered a full-sized _coffin, filled it with ping pong balls and had it delivered to her house. It was supposed to shock her, but the message was very clear: if I canât have you no one can.
Dr Farnham explains there is usually little physical threat from most stalkers, but a minority do go on to commit sexual assault, GBH or even murder.
âSexual predators are the most _dangerous category of offender and they generally still get long _sentences,â he says. âThey account for less than two per cent of our patients but their ultimate intent is to sexually assault or harm their victim. The polar opposite would be whatâs called an âincompetent suitorâ. This is usually someone quite young, or who perhaps has learning difficulties or problems with social interaction.
âThey have sexual urges but donât know how to act on them so their behaviour _becomes very intense and frightening for the victim, although they are almost
always harmless.â
Jamie, who watched his neighbours through peepholes, was brought to the clinic after being convicted of voyeurism. He was so desperate for a girlfriend that, like many incompetent suitors, he would repeatedly approach women in the street and ask for sex or a relationship. He is on the autistic spectrum and is obsessed with car manuals.
Jamie says he wanted to make a manual for having a relationship.
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-clinic-treating-britains-worst-2070467
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Dr Farnham says: âFor delusional patients, the therapy comes alongside closely monitored medication to treat the underlying psychiatric issues.
âThat doesnât necessarily happen in a prison. Itâs a big step forward that the law has finally recognised the severity of stalking as a crime, but also _understands the need for treatment.
âStalking can be a symptom of many serious problems including _schizophrenia, depression and even autism. _Medical attention is often a better option than prison for the _offender, the victim and the public.â
Treatment at the clinic costs £6,000 for six months. Sending a person to jail for the same period costs more than four times as much.
It sounds like a no-brainer, but the clinic is still in a pilot phase, _commissioned on a case-by-case basis by the Crown Prosecution Service. Each case must have displayed âpersistent and unwanted attention which causes fear in the victimâ.
Dr Farnham calls 40-year-old Michael a âdelusional romanticâ. But there is no romance involved with patients like these. In fact, sometimes they can be the most persistent.
âPatients like Michael are _completely delusional and have no idea the _relationship with the victim isnât real,â says Dr Farnham.
âItâs known as eroto-mania. They _account for around 10 to 15 per cent of the offenders we see here.â
Part of Michaelâs weekly therapy is to work through why he feels he is in a relationship, which he insists is going well because she has been sending him âsignsâ that show she loves him.
A billboard near his home has _recently changed from advertising cars to Lynx aftershave. Michael is adamant his victim arranged it as a message for him to keep trying to win her affections. He also spotted a familiar number plate on his way to work one day and insisted sheâd planted it as a token of her love. But when asked when his stalking is going to stop, Michael answers: âThe path of true love never runs smooth.â
Dr Farnham insists that for patients like him, the clinic really is a last chance to get past their problems. But the _largest number of stalkers at the clinic are _offenders like Richard.
He was prescribed nine months of weekly therapy sessions under the conditions of a community order after being convicted of stalking his ex last year. He falls into the category Dr _Farnham calls rejected lovers.
He says: âThey are often very angry about the end of the relationship and will do anything to get their partner back.â
Richard started by leaving a bunch of flowers on his victimâs windscreen every day after they split. When that didnât work, he left four bunches.
When his ex ignored his calls and texts he graduated to sending a pizza delivery at the same time every evening or taxis in the middle of the night.
âTo him it was a way of getting inside her world and it was very unsettling for her,â says Dr Farnham. In a final act of anger, Richard ordered a full-sized _coffin, filled it with ping pong balls and had it delivered to her house. It was supposed to shock her, but the message was very clear: if I canât have you no one can.
Dr Farnham explains there is usually little physical threat from most stalkers, but a minority do go on to commit sexual assault, GBH or even murder.
âSexual predators are the most _dangerous category of offender and they generally still get long _sentences,â he says. âThey account for less than two per cent of our patients but their ultimate intent is to sexually assault or harm their victim. The polar opposite would be whatâs called an âincompetent suitorâ. This is usually someone quite young, or who perhaps has learning difficulties or problems with social interaction.
âThey have sexual urges but donât know how to act on them so their behaviour _becomes very intense and frightening for the victim, although they are almost
always harmless.â
Jamie, who watched his neighbours through peepholes, was brought to the clinic after being convicted of voyeurism. He was so desperate for a girlfriend that, like many incompetent suitors, he would repeatedly approach women in the street and ask for sex or a relationship. He is on the autistic spectrum and is obsessed with car manuals.
Jamie says he wanted to make a manual for having a relationship.
... article continues here ...
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-clinic-treating-britains-worst-2070467
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Dr Farnham explains: âHe would make extensive notes on what his neighbours were saying to each other and how they interacted and then bound them into a manual.
âHe wasnât a physical or sexual threat but when they realised what he was doing, they were understandably upset and went to the police.â
As the clinic is so new, it is impossible to gauge its long-term results for _offenders such as Jamie in comparison with jail. But Dr Farnham fears the best results may never be seen as the clinic at Chase Farm Hospital, _Enfield, fights for funding to survive.
âWe would like to be able to provide _treatment for many more offenders because we believe it is often far more effective than custodial _sentences alone,â he says.
But as long as funding only comes on a case by case basis it is impossible for this tiny centre to expand.
âIf we donât get a large-scale _commissioning deal in place with the CPS and the NHS soon, the future of the clinic is in jeopardy.â
For now, it remains a beacon of hope, a place where stalkers can deal with their obsessions making us all feel safer.
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-clinic-treating-britains-worst-2070467
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Dr Farnham explains: âHe would make extensive notes on what his neighbours were saying to each other and how they interacted and then bound them into a manual.
âHe wasnât a physical or sexual threat but when they realised what he was doing, they were understandably upset and went to the police.â
As the clinic is so new, it is impossible to gauge its long-term results for _offenders such as Jamie in comparison with jail. But Dr Farnham fears the best results may never be seen as the clinic at Chase Farm Hospital, _Enfield, fights for funding to survive.
âWe would like to be able to provide _treatment for many more offenders because we believe it is often far more effective than custodial _sentences alone,â he says.
But as long as funding only comes on a case by case basis it is impossible for this tiny centre to expand.
âIf we donât get a large-scale _commissioning deal in place with the CPS and the NHS soon, the future of the clinic is in jeopardy.â
For now, it remains a beacon of hope, a place where stalkers can deal with their obsessions making us all feel safer.