. Who is My Prospect?
My assumptions â¦
The data cards say about 60% of these folks are male and 40% are female. But since a significant number of women purchase health products from mail packages addressed to their husbands, the split could be closer to 50/50.
Nearly 100% of them have already celebrated their 50th birthdays. Average age is 68 years. That means Iâll be addressing lots of 70-year-olds and 80-year olds, too.
Average age of 68 means my average prospect was born in 1938 ⦠in high school in the 50s ⦠in their 20s and early 30s in the 1960s. Cultural references from those periods should resonate powerfully.
Judging from national statistics, I can assume that at least 30 percent are members of ethnic minorities and that somewhere around 10% are gay.
100% of my prospects have demonstrated an interest in better health by actually purchasing health-related newsletters, books and other products through the mail in the recent past (12 months or less).
Judging from their average age and income level, I can assume that a significant number of my prospects are retired and on a fixed income, are politically conservative and fairly well-off.
Since these people have purchased similar products in the past, itâs a good bet that many are distrustful of the medical establishment and are eager for an alternative source of health advice.
II. Male Prospect Profile
A. Mental State: The average 68-year-old man still feels 18 inside. In his mindâs eye, he still sees himself as healthy, strong, bullet-proof, sexy and virile.
Our typical male prospect tends to derive much of his identity and self-value from:
His ability to obtain sex and to perform well â¦
His ability to prevail in physical competition with other men â¦
His ability to prevail in the competition for career and financial success â¦
But his delusions are rudely shattered â¦
When he stands before a shaving mirror and sees an âold, tired manâ looking back at him ⦠or catches a glimpse of his hands and is shocked to realize they look like the hands of his father or grandfather â¦
When the attempt to throw a ball or swing a golf club ⦠run a few steps or jog up a flight of stairs ⦠lift a heavy piece of furniture, spend an hour bent over working on his car or garden or indulge in vigorous love-making leaves him exhausted, breathless and/or in pain â¦
When he notices that he canât read the fine print on the sports page or see well enough to confidently drive at night. Or that his fading hearing has him constantly asking folks, âWhat did you say again?â Or when he finds himself feeling mentally confused or suffering memory lapses more often.
When he realizes that the sight of a hot woman no longer takes his breath away ⦠that the ladies arenât returning his admiring glances like they once did ⦠that his sexual fantasies and dreams are fewer and farther between ⦠and that his once firm and frequent erections are becoming less âerectâ and more rare.
When he finds himself dealing with the same irritating things that plagued his father: Insomnia, indigestion, joint pain, weight gain, energy loss, forgetfulness, grumpiness â¦
When a doctor forces him to face the fact that his once-low cholesterol, blood pressure and/or blood sugar numbers are rising, putting him at risk for a serious age-related health problem â¦
When a trip to the emergency room confirms that he has heart disease or has had a heart attack or stroke ⦠or diabetes ⦠or cancer.
B. Emotional State: Long periods of denial, punctuated by moments of intense frustration and sheer terror when confronted with the reality of his situationâ¦
Surprised, disappointed and saddened when confronted with the reality of his aging physical appearance â¦
Frustrated, disgusted and angry about how his aging body limits or destroys his ability to perform the physical tasks he once enjoyed â¦
Embarrassed in situations where his appearance, eyesight, hearing, mental lapses or memory make his aging condition apparent to others â¦
Chagrined by his declining appeal to the ladies and alarmed about the continuing decline of his libido and sexual performance â¦
Worried about the high cost and possible side-effects of the drugs he takes to address everything from his minor health irritations ⦠to his serious risk factors ⦠and to diseases he has actually been diagnosed with â¦
Indignant and angry with his (younger) doctors who obviously view him as an old man ⦠who believe that his health problems are to be expected at his age ⦠and who give up too easily on him â¦
Skeptical, cynical and suspicious of a medical industry that he clearly understands is set up to grow richer as he grows older and sicker ⦠fed up with alternative docs and supplement companies that promise real-world solutions but never deliver for him â and stubbornly determined not to be played for a sucker.