Quote from Yours truly,:
Who's responsibility is it?
She shares your belief, that it's not her responsibility. But she think that it is the responsibility of people all over this country, who have never met her relatives.
I really don't understand what you are arguing here. I have never met many of my relatives - why in the hell is it my responsibility to give them money?
Let me know if you can clarify what you are trying to say, otherwise I will just write this off as a wasted exchange.