This is not a dating site.
It isn't, but to be fair there is a section of listings labelled "Hook Up" within the "Community Lounge" sub-forum ... so perhaps it's also not quite as unreasonable as you're trying to make it sound?
And perhaps it's also not quite a cause for the level of personal insults and sheer name-calling this thread has produced?!
The behavior of some of the participants here has really horrified me.
I'm dismayed that the moderators will tolerate it.
(I haven't quite decided whether to leave the forum or just add a whole load of people whose behavior I dislike to my "ignore" list ... anyway, that's my problem, not yours.)

