Beeflover, sorry to hear that you are experiencing a drawdown. Look upon your experiences as further education.
Couple of observations here:
1. There was a question about avoiding price spikes. The trader has to understand that a price spike represents large numbers of market participants experiencing pain, they are long or short, and the market is moving rapidly against them. The pros know where the stops are likely to be, and they will go for them like fishermen search for the best fishing grounds.
Many are forced to get out at these points, and the market can then reverse without them.
As a trader, one wants to be takng profit at these times, ie on the other side of these losing trades.
One quote I really like:
"Enter the market in quiet times, exit at wild times".
2. People have to realise that very short term trading strategies (like some variants described here) are not for everyone. Slippage & commissions will be high as a proportion of profits (or losses) using such strategies. The trader has to feel comfortable with the trading style chosen.
For me, 3-4 trades per day is quite a lot, for others it's 2-3 per week.