that's the point ! people prefer to stay away of risk & pain(risk of rejection or get trouble of looking for new and fresh girls , pain of loss in a trade) , so the easy solution is looking for a holy grail , this holy grail in trading yields in disaster, in relationship this holy grail is a wife which is always ready for sex and will never rejects you .(of course this hot woman will get fat sooner or later and her tall hairs will be shortened )You know I am sure that 90% of people do not want to work on themselves, but
want the goods ( is it entitlement mentality ? don't know).
I have to say that even Brad Pitt did work on himself :
- from table waiter to seriously wealthy
- from kind of ok physically, to very handsome
- etc...
As in trading : work on yourself and see the "good things in life" attracted to you.
You will not need to chase crap masquerading as quality, as quality knows quality
when it sees it.
even a leopard / lion/ tiger/eagle is not successful at all of attacks ,Brad Pit is an exception, at least in middle east he will not do any better than an average guy because middle eastern girls usually don't like blonde and blue eye men .
Brad Pit gives them a "SENSE" that girls like this sense. you can also give girls those sense without being a Brad Pit or being so handsome or rich .
it's matter of self confidence in relationship & in trading it's matter of an edge.they both obey the same logic.