Hello everyone and happy new year! 
I was not expecting this many replies, but I understand this is an interesting topic for many. Actually, I`m glad I made this thread as I`ve gotten much valuable advice already and it has helped me to start seriously thinking about what to do. The only thing I`m confident about right now is that I have to seriously reconsider my approach entering 2011.
To clarify on my job, I work in the construction industry and have decent papers and a decent reputation. If I wanted to make a career in this field I could fairly easily negotiate a pay raise of 20% in my current job right now (it would naturally involve more responsibilities). I could start working late hours as I once did and make a decent living. Starting out on my own is also a possiblity. I was once very passionate about my career and went well beyond what was expected of me, but after a while I realized that I had gotten what I could out of it and that my interests lie elsewhere. Continuing in this job would not make me happy.
That`s why I made a decision three years ago to pursue trading as a possible career. At this point I had been rather successful swing trading stocks, growing my account while working, but lost most of it when the market conditions changed and I did not adjust. Leverage and revenge trading can very quickly eradicate an account
Knowing what was possible and also being aware of my lack of knowledge at that point, I reasoned that if I really spent the time studying the markets, reading books, learning this stuff, trading in simulator BEFORE risking my money, I could eventually make it as a trader. This I still believe, although my expectations have been drastically lowered and I`ve been humbled many times since I started this quest. I`ve been tempted to give up many times, but I`m not that kind of guy and since I pretty much chose this over a formal education, I need to give it my best shot before calling quits.
Although I`ve covered a lot of ground the last three years, I`ve spent a lot of time going in circles and being distracted by my daily life. I fear that if I continue to just mess around without giving trading my 100% undivided focus, it will take me a long time to make it if I ever do.
It seems like a few of you think I live in the US, but I live in Europe. My country made it fairly well through the financial crisis and we did not have a housing bubble. There is still demand for my skills in the industry and I could quickly get back to work if trading does not work out. And yes, I`m single without any children or other significant obligations. Pursuing trading while working a full-time job, does not allow much time for anything else
The idea of taking a vacation to test the waters first may be a good idea.
I`m less optimistic about automation at this point, but it is something I`m very interested in learning more about in the future.
The reason I chose to pursue trading in the first place was because I wanted a career change and trading seemed to fit many of my requirements. Working for myself and the potential of financial freedom to mention a few. The market also fascinated me deeply at that point (still does), so why not?
I know many disagree, but I believe day trading to be the best method for consistent income provided that you actually learn how to trade. I also like not having any overnight positions. The market may go sideways for months, but as a day trader you can always exploit the intraday moves. Experiencing a wide variety of market conditions in a compressed time frame (compared to long-term trading) also accelerates learning IMO.
Perhaps I should look further into swing trading forex. I`ve simply invested most of my efforts into learning day trading as that has been my goal all the way.
I understand that it does not make sense to quit my job before I earn consistent income from my trading. It makes sense in theory and this was always the plan, but coming home from work and trading during a very compressed window of opportunity is extremely tough. So tough that I`m not even sure I could pull it off. Swing trading would probably be a better method here.
I`m interested in getting a formal education if trading does not work out. That`s why I don`t feel like half-assing for several more years in a job I don`t like, just to find out that it`s not for me and being an old man before getting into school. Perhaps I just should take the leap and give it 100% for the next 7 months and then call it quits for now if I continue losing and get myself an education.
I need to think it over. I will start following the markets closely again on Monday, but only SIM for now.
Thank you everyone for your valuable and kind advice. There were simply too many answers to adress each of you in particular.
Still thinking.
Best regards,
Laissez Faire

I was not expecting this many replies, but I understand this is an interesting topic for many. Actually, I`m glad I made this thread as I`ve gotten much valuable advice already and it has helped me to start seriously thinking about what to do. The only thing I`m confident about right now is that I have to seriously reconsider my approach entering 2011.
To clarify on my job, I work in the construction industry and have decent papers and a decent reputation. If I wanted to make a career in this field I could fairly easily negotiate a pay raise of 20% in my current job right now (it would naturally involve more responsibilities). I could start working late hours as I once did and make a decent living. Starting out on my own is also a possiblity. I was once very passionate about my career and went well beyond what was expected of me, but after a while I realized that I had gotten what I could out of it and that my interests lie elsewhere. Continuing in this job would not make me happy.
That`s why I made a decision three years ago to pursue trading as a possible career. At this point I had been rather successful swing trading stocks, growing my account while working, but lost most of it when the market conditions changed and I did not adjust. Leverage and revenge trading can very quickly eradicate an account
Knowing what was possible and also being aware of my lack of knowledge at that point, I reasoned that if I really spent the time studying the markets, reading books, learning this stuff, trading in simulator BEFORE risking my money, I could eventually make it as a trader. This I still believe, although my expectations have been drastically lowered and I`ve been humbled many times since I started this quest. I`ve been tempted to give up many times, but I`m not that kind of guy and since I pretty much chose this over a formal education, I need to give it my best shot before calling quits.Although I`ve covered a lot of ground the last three years, I`ve spent a lot of time going in circles and being distracted by my daily life. I fear that if I continue to just mess around without giving trading my 100% undivided focus, it will take me a long time to make it if I ever do.
It seems like a few of you think I live in the US, but I live in Europe. My country made it fairly well through the financial crisis and we did not have a housing bubble. There is still demand for my skills in the industry and I could quickly get back to work if trading does not work out. And yes, I`m single without any children or other significant obligations. Pursuing trading while working a full-time job, does not allow much time for anything else

The idea of taking a vacation to test the waters first may be a good idea.
I`m less optimistic about automation at this point, but it is something I`m very interested in learning more about in the future.
The reason I chose to pursue trading in the first place was because I wanted a career change and trading seemed to fit many of my requirements. Working for myself and the potential of financial freedom to mention a few. The market also fascinated me deeply at that point (still does), so why not?
I know many disagree, but I believe day trading to be the best method for consistent income provided that you actually learn how to trade. I also like not having any overnight positions. The market may go sideways for months, but as a day trader you can always exploit the intraday moves. Experiencing a wide variety of market conditions in a compressed time frame (compared to long-term trading) also accelerates learning IMO.
Perhaps I should look further into swing trading forex. I`ve simply invested most of my efforts into learning day trading as that has been my goal all the way.
I understand that it does not make sense to quit my job before I earn consistent income from my trading. It makes sense in theory and this was always the plan, but coming home from work and trading during a very compressed window of opportunity is extremely tough. So tough that I`m not even sure I could pull it off. Swing trading would probably be a better method here.
I`m interested in getting a formal education if trading does not work out. That`s why I don`t feel like half-assing for several more years in a job I don`t like, just to find out that it`s not for me and being an old man before getting into school. Perhaps I just should take the leap and give it 100% for the next 7 months and then call it quits for now if I continue losing and get myself an education.
I need to think it over. I will start following the markets closely again on Monday, but only SIM for now.
Thank you everyone for your valuable and kind advice. There were simply too many answers to adress each of you in particular.
Still thinking.
Best regards,
Laissez Faire