.Quote from Laissez Faire:
Hello everyone,
I was not sure if I should let this decision be influenced by the public opinion, but I`ve decided to think out loud and ask for some guidance. I`m sure many of you have been in the same place.
Entering the holidays, I had finished my first two months of live futures trading (ES contract) in addition to working a full-time job. Living in Europe, this allows me to trade the afternoon session in the US markets, while missing the open of the session.
Needless to say, this combination is very exhausting, especially since I sit up late with my post-analysis after the close and sleep way less than I should. My daytime job is also fairly demanding. I was very tired entering the holidays.
As for my trading, after some initial success, I`m now down $3000, much of it due to a terrible mistake on Fed day (QE2) and swinging too much size early on. In spite of this, I feel fairly confident in my abilities to read the market and I`ve improved immensely since I went live. I`ve spent the last two years studying the markets (after my first failure, knowing nothing back then), so I should be fairly prepared for the task.
However, the truth is that I have lost money and I need to re-evaluate things going forward from here.
I fear that if I continue like I`ve done, it will be very hard to achieve decent results in my trading. Much because I miss the open and potentially the best moves of the day, but also because it give me less time for analysis and preparation and also the fact that my day job tires me physically and mentally.
On the other hand, the reason I`m working a job is that I need to pay bills like everyone else. On the flip-side, my skills are in demand and I have a decent reputation so I will probably get a new job (or my old job) pretty quickly, if my trading does not work out.
Considering that I need to change course, I see the following alternatives right now:
1) Give notice that I`m leaving and fulfill the last two months of my contract working long days. I should probably be able to save $7000 by then. That should cover 2-3 months of living expenses. Start trading full-time in March.
2) Negotiate a deal where I resume my current job, but reduce my hours by 40-50%. This would allow me to trade full time 2-3 days of the week in addition to the afternoon session on the remaining days. Having some savings, I should be able to cover my expenses for a while, provided I live frugally.
If I can negotiate such a deal, I`m thinking that a reduced day time job would be my best bet as opposed to quitting completely.
Thanks in advance for any good ideas.
Best regards,
Laissez Faire
Quote from redone:
Why debate the issue while the US national unemployment rate is over 6%? I would only consider if the national rate were to fall below 6% then at least I would be confident that something out there might be waiting for me. As it is, a job is not a luxury in the US but something that they need and need badly.
Quote from Steven.Davis:
I took a big plunge leaving an established firm, which had no futures, or a start-up with smart people and an unlimited future. I am grateful for what I learned from my coworkers and the experiences that I had, but the start-ups future was quite brief. Left unemployed in a state in which I knew no one in a house full of boxes which hadn't even been unpacked with too much debt to go back ... It has been a few years now, but in this economy, economic wounds don't heal. My wife and I fight all the time about my "big mistake." The guy who recruited me to this state has had the opportunity to see that not only evil, greedy wives but also children and friends will desert a man who cannot enable them. If I hadn't taken a chance, I wouldn't have the skills and experiences that I have today.
Taking all of the "right", safe, socially prescribed choices is not a recipe for happiness, but for the damnation of a life not yours.
Quote from fjpenney:
The following was on another thread:
1. We accumulate information â buying books, going to seminars and researching.
2. We begin to trade with our ânewâ knowledge.
3. We consistently âdonateâ and then realize we may need more knowledge or information.
4. We accumulate more information.
5. We switch the commodities we are currently following.
6. We go back into the market and trade with our âupdatedâ knowledge.
7. We get âbeat upâ again and begin to lose some of our confidence.
Fear starts setting in.
8. We start to listen to âoutside newsâ and to other traders.
9. We go back into the market and continue to âdonateâ.
10. We switch commodities again.
11. We search for more information.
12. We go back into the market and start to see a little progress.
13. We get âover-confidentâ and the market humbles us.
14. We start to understand that trading successfully is going to take more time and more knowledge than we anticipated.
Most people will give up at this point, as they realize work is involved.
15. We get serious and start concentrating on learning a ârealâ methodology.
16. We trade our methodology with some success, but realize that something is missing.
17. We begin to understand the need for having rules to apply our methodology.
18. We take a sabbatical from trading to develop and research our trading rules.
19. We start trading again, this time with rules and find some success, but over all we still hesitate when it comes time to execute.
20. We add, subtract and modify rules as we see a need to be more proficient with our rules.
21. We feel we are very close to crossing that threshold of successful trading.
22. We start to take responsibility for our trading results as we understand that our success is in us, not the methodology.
23. We continue to trade and become more proficient with our methodology and our rules.
24. As we trade we still have a tendency to violate our rules and our results are still erratic.
25. We know we are close.
26. We go back and research our rules.
27. We build the confidence in our rules and go back into the market and trade.
28. Our trading results are getting better, but we are still hesitating in executing our rules.
29. We now see the importance of following our rules as we see the results of our trades when we donât follow the rules.
30. We begin to see that our lack of success is within us (a lack of discipline in following the rules because of some kind of fear), and we begin to work on knowing ourselves better.
31. We continue to trade and the market teaches us more and more about ourselves.
32. We master our methodology and our trading rules.
33. We begin to consistently make money.
34. We get a little over-confident and the market humbles us.
35. We continue to learn our lessons.
36. We stop thinking and allow our rules to trade for us (trading becomes boring, but successful) and our trading account continues to grow as we increase our contract size.
37. We are making more money than we ever dreamed possible.
38. We go on with our lives and accomplish many of the goals we had always dreamed of.
Quote from Steven.Davis:
That said, there are always a 1000 reasons to hesitate. Do you have a passion for this new life? Life is short. It can evaporate so quietly. Make peace with your choices and their consequences, and then take ownership of your life. Its hard.

Quote from dwpeters:
Hi,
You know there are ways to trade without quitting your job. I trade stocks with hold times from days to weeks based on end of day data. I spend about 5 hours per week running my screens, entering my trades, and recording my results. I spend more time on research but that can be done whenever. I can continue to work and grow my account much quicker because I don't have to take money out except for taxes. I know I won't match the returns of the top day traders who can compound their money much faster, but I am still very profitable and I have lot's more extra time. Right now I fill that with working. I'm thinking next year I may fill that time with golf and reading.