''Also...
If you care what people HERE think...
There is something very wrong.''
That may well be the best advise i have ever read on this forum, not that i've been reading it long mind you!! It did make me laugh.
I feel your pain buddy. You have so far been given a bunch of totally contradictory advise (yes, i know this is an internet forum)..... maybe best to ask this question somewhere else or wait until you have got a much larger spread of responses before taking on this decision.
If i was you i would be no wiser at this stage.
Best of luck.