I repeated this cycle after my $18K loss on STLD options. At some point my (informal) mentor here at ET recommended a book to me, Reading Price Charts Bar By Bar by Al Brooks. It was a dreadful book to read, but I kept spending time with it and gradually things I saw and experienced personally during my daily trading screen time started to resonate. I'd put on a trade that went 1 tick in my favor and immediately stopped me out for a loss, and I remember stuff I saw in Brooks' book about counter-trend traps. One day I decided to buy a new high in a strong trend using a buy stop. It felt so absolutely wrong I could hardly leave the order sitting there as price came up to it. But it worked, more often than not.
Gradually over time, I learned that fading trends and strong trending moves is the hard way to make money. (I now know that it can work quite well under certain conditions and at certain price levels, but even that knowledge came from concepts learned about in Brooks' book.)
Before Brooks I had some good ideas, but no idea about how the markets really worked and why. Brooks opened my eyes to the "why and how" of price behavior in highly liquid markets. I never again endured a loss like that because I learned about risk management. Learning to think in probabilities (Mark Douglas, The Disciplined Trader) was an absolute necessity as well because the best and most thoroughly tested trading plan in world is worthless without the ability to trade based on probabilities, instead of trading based on what you think, feel, and believe is going to happen.
Yeah that's fine in a trending market. I find you can make money both fading moves and going with them. It's the switch between a trending market and a choppy market that I find hardest to determine and adjust.
So how is your trading now? are you profitable and making a living?