Quote from riserburn:
You are seriously out of touch with typical 14 year old boys. I can assure you that it's a pretty damn good chance that, among his peer group right now, he's the coolest dude they've ever met. His head has probably ballooned several times over with pride. After all, the only reason why he and her got caught was because he was bragging about it.
And the bonus: he's got all kinds of adults telling him he's the victim and that he's done nothing wrong. "No worries kiddo; I think with my dick, too."
See?:
Rearden Metal may not have articulated it in the best way, but he got it right:
It doesn't matter whether you think it's rape or not, public opinion about the gender role differences and sex appeal is far out of favor to make this an issue of outrage.
No, the real trauma comes later. He's just learned that it's OK to "play" the victim as long as there are those that approve. Let's see how many times he can get away with that scenario in life before he gets burned.