Quote from cvds16:
if ever there was an impatient person around, it must be me. My daytime job really sucks, you have no idea (there is a good reason for that, long story, I got an illnes and can't work in my previous industry anymore) so all I want is to start trading fulltime. Experience learned me that's just the stupid thing to do right now ... better have some patience and start of in optimal circumstances. There is going to be enough pressure on you allready as it is, no need to make it even harder.
don't only show the results to your wife, also try to explain a bit what it entails ... and that there are ups and downs, so she just doesnt get scared to death if you are just having a bad week. Explain to here this can happen, tell her now about riskmanagement, position sizing, she may only understand half of it but at least she will know you are serious about this ...