Quote from thecalip:
chapter 11 means if you want to make your woman (man for others), you will want to work hard to give her the thing she truly desired. It will give you the motivation and the drive to satisfy your desire to make her happy.
It has nothing to do with sexual thing.
Of course, in current day speaking when it mean please your partner, it means bigging penis or bigger boobs as promoted by all these men's mags.