That's only true if it's on expiration and both sides are ITM. If you get early assignment, that's not the case.the moment you are assigned the other leg is auto-executed...
And you can only get assigned on the short side of a spread...which circles me back to:-Suppose the in the money long call gets assigned? How does the other leg get marked?
...I get the words flipped myself when I try to post about my spreads...So maybe it's right on your mind, but if not slow down and figure options out a bit better.