As far as adults go, I don't really give a rat's ass who's encouraging whom to do what, as long as the other person is able to say no. Like if I see a hot girl at a bar, I think it's perfectly reasonable for me to "encourage" her to have sex with me, 'cause she's perfectly capable of telling me to fuck off.Quote from peilthetraveler:
So you are saying that because they are adults and not children there is no problem? Then "logically" there should be no problem if the president encouraged and supplied the entire white house with bibles, making sure every congressman had one and always encouraged him to read it, right?
It seems to me that people don't want the bible in their lives until shit gets out of control.
In general, I think there's a lot to be said for thinking of right and wrong in religious matters in the same way one thinks about right and wrong in sex. The parallels are useful. Feel free to apply this idea to your example above.