Originally posted by Elysium
What is it that makes the switch from paper to real trading so difficult?
Is it something internal (fear of losing real money, not doing exactly the same as you did on paper, ...) or is it more of an external reason (hard to get filled at price, slippage, spread, ...)
Of course it's a bit of both, but on a scale of 0-10 (0 being 100 % internal and 10 being 100 % external) what number do you pick?
A good analogy is a competitive sport...Be it golf, tennis, baseball, etc, etc...The individual sports seem the most applicable because there is no one to hide behind...So lets say golf...You go out to your course all alone and tee it up and every day you shoot 72 cause there is no one around, no pressure, no one to see if you hook one OB...So then word gets out that you are the hot shot golfer and all of a sudden there is a hell of alot more pressure...You start asking yourself "maybe all of these 72's I am shooting are just a fluke, maybe with people around I will really screw up"...Then all of a sudden you are in the local tourney and everyone makes sure they watch you tee it off and everyone wants to see the scoreboard when you come in to see if you REALLY can shoot 72...
Like any sport, practice and competition are completely different environments with uniquely different psychological dilemma's...Whether its our own self induced pressure or whether it is simply the adrenaline, etc, etc...Somehow it all translates into a learning curve...Learning how to remain focussed and centered when all of the emotions and self talk are negative...
Not to sound like a dime store Mark Douglass, but I have experienced this stuff in competitive sports and also as a trader...Fortunately for me, my trading is done in my home and there is no one around to sit and watch(lol)...But even if there were I feel that I have put in enough time to handle that properly, but it took a long time to get past the psychological stuff in the beginning and to accept that this was real...
There is no substitution for real competition...Trading with real money is real competition...Everyone who does it can attest to those emotions that are involved when you watch your P/L fluctuate up and down and know that it is for real and not just the practice round...
At least thats my take on it...