Thanks all,
I had no idea that I would get this many responses so quickly! I'm sorry that I forgot to mention that I can't get ISDN here either.
I have been running 2 u s robotics to a local isp (the only one that I could find that would support the shotgun/handshake protocol. A techie friend of mine had to show them how to set it up.

My best connection speed is 74,666 or 37,333bps from each modem/phone line.
When I run tracert I am getting as high as 800ms in some spots, I am not really educated on all this but even a field rat can look at 800ms in one spot and tell that its higher then the 130's etc. To say the least I need something better.
I think that I will go ahead and give the directway 2WAY a try, as I am totally fed up with the data stoppage and my IB trader workstation losing connection as well as, my realtic charting going (lights out) with warnings of possible bandwidth problems popping up as soon as my method calls an entry.
Hopefully directway 2way has worked out the software problems, I'll give them a call and find out. (again,Thanks for that info).
I suppose that a 1/2 to 3/4 second lag is workable (guess I'll find out) E-minies can travel fast but I always enter my stops first and I enter my entry orders as limit orders. If I feel strongly about my method's call, then I have no problem doing a sweep entry with my IB limit order anyway. Those of you with IB probably know exactly what I'm saying here.
1-2 seconds inherent lag/round trip can go against me, but I suppose that since IB's software does seem to try to get the best possible price, that the lag could also work in my favor from time to time. I guess that trading against someone that has the ultimate speed connection matters, but as long as I am on the correct side of the move and am trading with the move then maybe this lag won't matter enough to cost me many points. As, my trades sometimes last 10 or 20 minutes.(usually exiting with trailing stops or stop losses however the case may be) Occassionally, I see a point or two (just laying there....lol) and I reach out an snatch it.(scalp) Sometimes it's just there and I can't help myself, I'll grab it !! The satellite data speed may put an end to me doing this, but it's probably not such a bad thing for me to stop doing anyway. (doesn't always work)
I am not a brand new trader but I still consider myself to be an apprentice/semi-newbie having only daytraded for about 15 months so, I still only trade 1 contract. (only 4 months with futures) I only watch NQ, ES, $COMPX,$DJI, NYSE Tick, NAS Tick and Trin, $SOX.X and 3 stocks (IBM, AMAT, and INTC) That's it for my RT-marketminder indicators.
I run 4 charts, all NQ, 1 minute, 3 minute, 13 minute, and 60 minute. On these charts I run a 3pd ma(with a 3 lag), a 5pd sma, a 15pd sma and a 200 sma. I also run stochastics and %R as well as volume bars. I do not run any chat rooms. Only IB and realtick charting/ straight from realtic. My dial-up still can't handle this and I don't consider this to be a lot of stuff to keep running.
So maybe the satelitte system with slight lag will work better than data stopping and platform disconnects and warning messages. I usually trade off my 3 minute charts using cross overs of the 5ma crossing the 15ma as entry signals and price often moves quickly at these points and here I sit ready to pounce and guess what. My data stops and IB starts trying to re-connect and smoke starts coming out of my ears......lol.....another missed entry......etc....sometimes I enter anyway a few points away from what I considered optimum entry.....that all depends on what my indicators are reading on the higher time frames 13 min and 60 min.
My method is real simple but what the heck, it works more often than not and I am surviving while I learn and tweak it. I just need for my data to not stop....
Thanks again for all the great feedback, I think I will like this site a lot. You traders seem to be knowledgable and caring. If there is anyone else that is allready using 2way. I would love to hear your experience with it. Good trading to all !!! Thank- You!! PS. If I do get this direcway/2way and set it all up and if this thread is still up. I will post a review on whether or not it has been good for me.
One other thing, does anyone know how to program a television to block out the DSL and Roadrunner Cable commercials.....LOL