Quote from Artful D0dger:
Well, if you know someone's race, that consists of much more than the "color of their skin". The idea that race is nothing more than skin color is scientifically invalid.
I don't know about phenomena or homofox, but I never said anything about liking someone. I may like the person just fine, but not want my children to consider them for a mate. I like many black people, but I wouldn't want any of them to mate with my children. My ethnic and cultural traits are important to me, hence I'd want them passed on to future offspring. I wouldn't fault any other non white person for feeling the same way. Many people, both white and nonwhite, value their ethnocultural traits and identity. Many white people value our ethnicity, our culture and it's accomplishments, and our identity. It doesn't mean we hate or even dislike other kinds people. I don't understand why that concept should be so difficult to grasp.