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yes, that's exactly what I mean.


look again, everything considered don't you think that generally the *real* threads tend to remain on topic? It's the BS threads with their BS topics that get just what they ask for and deserve ...slaughtered!

I agree. Most of the trading threads tend to stay more focused. Most but not all. But when a thread gets any real attention....meaning it goes on for a while, no matter what the content, it will usually get off track. (See "superstition, luck and Voodo" for an example that comes to mind...had a zillion responses and posts; and was eventually closed). My point was that a limited number of people seem to thrive in taking any discussion off topic. And usually with an agenda. Usually having to do with the topics that are so dear to their hearts and so very difficult to discuss without raising emotions and tempers....ie: religion and politics. But those topics are important. And if discussion leads to at least understanding and empathizing with another point of view, then much is accomplished. Or can be.

There is indeed more to life than just trading. And discussions that go on in "chit-chat" serve as a good distraction. I don't believe it is healthy to only think about and discuss trading alone. Makes for a very limited and boring life. The world is a mess now, and topics other than trading are a real part of life. Where better to discuss them than on a forum visited by people from the world over and from every imaginable background. I can sit in my office in South Florida and discuss international politics with people pretty much like myself....mostly representative of where I live. Mostly liberal. Mostly Jewish. Mostly affluent. Or, I can come here and discuss things with a guy like Traderfut, who is an Islamic Arab living in France. An intelligent guy with a completely different perspective than my own. And a guy that it is unlikely that I would find myself sitting next to at my office. With whom is the discussion going to be more interesting? On the one hand, I could essentially be talking to the mirror. On the other, I get to hear a point of view in real time, from a real person who will respond directly to me (as opposed to just reading Arabic opinions in the press, etc.). So, again, I think the "BS" threads, and the chit-chat forum serve a worthwhile purpose. Maybe not an important purpose in the context of trading, but again, there is more to life.

As far as your question about my posting about trading, I thought I answered it pretty comprehensively in the thread that turned into a "feud" between me and Max401. Since that thread is now closed, I can't quote from it....I will try and cut and paste it...let's see if this works:

Ahh...it seems to have worked, so here, again, is my answer:


Very true...I have confined myself to the "chit chat" threads pretty exclusively.

Reason......here anything and everything can be discussed. And is. You can agree, disagree, etc. and no one really cares.

Trading has been my profession for 14+ years. I did several threads (started them and wrote a lot of posts) and pretty much said what I had to say. I got an amazing amount of private messages. Most of them were written to thank me for my efforts. However, I also got quite a few slams (mostly on the public forums).

It is my belief that everyone has to develop a style of their own. In my "keeping it simple" and "successful trading" threads (and others that elude me at the moment), I gave the "advice" that I felt could be used pretty universally. I never believed that anyone could teach a specific way to trade. And I did not try. I only tried to give general advice that would work for any style.

I don't know what else to say about trading. I would never presume to know how to teach or even recommend a style that would be exactly suitable to anyone but me. I think trading is pretty much self-learned. That is not to say that basic principals can't be taught. That was what I attempted to do.

I think anyone that takes the time to read those threads will know whatever I know that I can actually spell out. All basic stuff about discipline, accountability, etc. I never once even attempted to give advice on what to trade, how to trade, how to time exits and entries, what kinds of TA to use, none of that.

I will always be happy to share whatever I think would be universally useful. But I don't know that I haven't already said it all. Any questions, I will try to answer. But first, I would suggest reading those threads. I did a lot of work and spent a lot of time on them. I would hate to just repeat myself.

Also, I have been trading much less for the past several months. This is just a matter of waiting for the market to "come to me", which I talked about extensively already. I KNOW I cannot force trades. I said very clearly that sometimes the hardest part of trading is knowing when NOT to trade. So in this environment, I have spent much less time trading. And much more time trying to improve my golf game. Hopefully we will start to see more of a trend in the market. For the past few months, it seems like it's one day up and one day down. Days like today....I went out of the office for an hour...the Dow was up 90 when I left and down 90 when I returned. volatility is good for trading, for me. But recognizing the difference between volatility and "choppiness" is important, and I just see a lot of "chop" lately. I am a "simple" guy. I like a "simple" market. I like to buy dips in an up market and sell run- ups in a down market. I don't trade into fed announcements or big numbers (or earnings these days). I am waiting for it to get easier.

Aphie asked recently something about the market not "doing what it should". Well the market does whatever the participants make it do. Sometimes traders (and ALL the public) think the "market" does things. The "market" doesn't do anything. We ARE the market. When stocks went up every day, bad news was ignored. When stocks went down every day, good news was ignored. It's all about psychology. When the market (meaning traders, and investors when there used to be such a thing) are confused, the reactions are confusing. So until things "clear up" for me, I am better off trading less, chit-chatting more, and working on my short game.

One other thing has halted my amount of contribution to the trading forums. That is the pervasive attitude that successful traders "don't share". I have addressed this too many times. I think it's such a completely false assumption. I think virtually all successful traders are secure enough to KNOW that no matter what they "divulge" will never come back and adversely affect their trading. But I am tired of defending this position. So rather than come off as a "blowhard" as I have been called by some, because I have been so adamant about my feelings on this subject, and since I feel there is no upside to defending it, what is the sense of posting my thoughts about trading? Those who agree with me agree, and already know what I know, and those who are looking for "secrets" will never get them from me. Because I don't know any.

Peace,
Rs7


If you or anyone would like me to post my thoughts about any specific aspect of trading I have not already addressed, I will be glad to when I have the time (fortunately my wife returns from Israel today, so my time will be more limited). But I will not, as I never have, get specific in any way that I do not think will be generally helpful to all. In other words, I will not address technical approaches to trading (using oscillators, stuff like that). I would not ever want to feel responsible for someone taking my own specific techniques and having them not work out for them. I have always tried to limit my passing of knowledge to the few but important aspects of trading that will help virtually everyone regardless of style, temperament, size of account, etc.

Again, there are no "secrets". I wish there were, and I wish I knew them. I don't if there are, and I don't believe I am missing anything even if they exist. Because common sense tells me that any "secret technique" cannot remain secret for long, and this seems well documented by the fact that the very best money managers, the very best mutual fund managers, the very best hedge fund managers don't seem to be able to hold a candle to the outstanding performance we hear about here on ET. The guys that get returns of thousands of percent per year. I clearly claimed to be more than happy to get a 1/10th of 1 percent return per day. Which adds up to a nice return per year. But certainly not the 5% per day (and the like) I hear about here. If I believed these numbers, I would gladly give all my money to these guys. Of course they would have no need for my money. They would end up with the entire wealth of the planet in a very short time with whatever funds they start with. They wouldn't need much!!

Peace,
:)rs7
 
i didn't realize that topics in chat were taken seriously by anyone. i guess i held this opinion because this being essentially a forum for traders and not one devoted to international politics or the like, i just assumed those who have a true interest in topics other than trading would seek out more well-informed forums devoted to the same. i never expected real intelligent informed debate on these other topics here, because the truly informed in something like international politics would never debate here would they? (of course there is an exception or two but on the whole)
 
Quote from LongShot:

i looked again, in the main section most threads hum right along on topic, in chit-chat they don't but who cares? who cares if bolt thumps his bible in "jokes", "jokes" is a useless BS thread --that's why it's placed in chat in the first place.

Yes, there are a few wise crackers in main section but they seem to be quickly ID'd and ignored by the real contributors.

Seems to me that ET works pretty good, and I too think it is good that the mods moderate with a soft hand. they do a great job, and it is amazing just how few posts ever need to be removed. (and it is easy to see when a post has been deleted because the author screams bloody murder!:) )

"Jokes is a useless thread"....ok, maybe true. But what harm does it do? In what way does it detract from anything?

Some posters like Optional777 are really funny consistently. He is a great asset to ET. Some posters are very serious and rarely show any humor, and they too are an asset to ET. And many members can both be serious and have fun. Not necessarily at the same time. Yet MrSubliminal manages this extraordinary feat with great success. It takes all kinds. And we have them!!!

ET is a great site, and attracts and extracts great material. I just hate to see a few bitter participants strive to ruin it. I wish I had all the answers. I only have opinions. And that is all I can give.

Here is the post I made that I had the most fun with. It had zero to do with trading, and contributed nothing of benefit to anyone but myself. But hey, we all get bored, and we all need our outlets. Tell me what harm was done. I can tell you what good was done...it made me laugh and it lightened my spirits for a bit:

Quote from rs7:

Hi, I am RS7's mistress.

He is really a great guy. I now have the opportunity to type a little here because he is in the bathroom beating his wife.

I know this sounds bad, but really, it is not his fault.

He was just shooting up, minding his own business, when she came in and knocked over his crack pipe and broke it. So you can see she sort of deserves what she is getting.

Anyway, he really is very sweet except when he makes losing trades. But he makes winning trades about half the time, so it's ok.

Well I have to go now because he told me to chop up some blow while he was beating her, and last time I didn't, he burned me with his cigarette. It kinda hurt, so I will try not to let that happen again.

Besides, I really need to bury the dog. He kicked it a little too hard last week, and it's starting to smell bad.

Hope that all the other girlfriends of traders are half as lucky as me. I don't know what I did to deserve such a wonderful man. I think from my experience probably all traders are pretty cool guys. I would still have been with the last trader I dated, but I decided not to wait for him to get out. The parole board said it wouldn't be for a while yet, and I am not getting any younger if you know what I mean.

So Maggie, I think that the 11 hours a month that these guys work is probably not too much to have to tolerate. Sure it's a grind, but we got a new propane tank for the trailer a few months ago, and it makes all the hard work pay off. So stand by your man!

Best Wishes,
Tanya

Of course, taken out of context, it is not quite as much fun to read as it was in the thread. See "Trader's Girlfriends".

I hope Max doesn't try and pick this one apart. Hey Max...I will head you off at the pass....It is all lies! (But I had fun with it).
 
Quote from wild:

re: "humor" - Optional777

rs7,

join the ET chatroom from time to time and read what Optional777 has to say about foreign nations (particularly Germany), other peoples´sexual orientation (particularly gays) etc. ... time allowing.

reagards

wild

Yes, and they can also read what Wild has to say about his love of the Taliban and support for Palestine, Iraq and Arab Nations, his hatred for George Bush, and essential trashing of America in general.

A good time can be had for all. Join us. We are the World!
 
Quote from LongShot:

i never expected real intelligent informed debate on these other topics here, because the truly informed in something like international politics would never debate here would they?

Well, you never know.... are you assuming that traders are, by definition, uninformed and therefore not worth discussing stuff with?

Maybe you are right. Hey Optional, what do you think? How about a graphic response:)??


:D :D
 
Quote from rs7:



Well, you never know.... are you assuming that traders are, by definition, uninformed and therefore not worth discussing stuff with?

Maybe you are right. Hey Optional, what do you think? How about a graphic response:)


:D :D

For those who didn't see this yet:

Springer%20Game.jpg


Really, doesn't Jerry Springer have the best job in America?
 
Quote from rs7:



Well, you never know.... are you assuming that traders are, by definition, uninformed and therefore not worth discussing stuff with?

Maybe you are right. Hey Optional, what do you think? How about a graphic response:)??


:D :D

Take for instance the subject of mathematical topology. Yes, there may be a few people here that can speak to this topic, but this isn't the forum to engage the true "professionals" on this this topic is it? On the whole you're going to get amateurish "chit-chat" here, nothing more than you might expect from the guy next to you in a posh bar. :)

Look at the paucity of informed replies to a recent topic -EMT- a topic that should be near and dear to the hearts of Et'ers, a topic pretty damn close to home. Noone here could hold a candle to vladiator (you didn't even weigh in on this one rs7:D ) valdiator chewed everyone up, he was clearly well-informed and knowledgeable, and noone here got even close to challenging his viewpoint. he got a lot of "you are FOS" responses but nothing to back it up.

And this is on a topic pretty damn close to home here on ET!

Do you really believe "international politics" or something of the like even further removed from the main forum topic will fare any better here?
 
"Jokes is a useless thread"....ok, maybe true. But what harm does it do? In what way does it detract from anything?
-rs7

no harm, imo. but what harm if bolt preaches in it, as long as he confines it to chat (the semi-useless section:D )
 
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