The 14th amendment was ratified in 1868. Keep trying.
No, you keep trying. The 14th extends the Bill of Rights to the states.
Maybe you can establish where the Bill of Rights guarantees gay marriage and abortions before getting giddy over it being extended to the states.
Hint: The majority of the court could not find it, and could not even find where the dissent said it had found it. Like you, the dissent just feels it should be there even if it is not.
I sticking with the idea that Framers did not intend abortion and gay marriage rights and the Civil War and 14th amendments did not arise out of any intentions related to abortion or gay marriage either. Ya think? Duh. Here is a picture of your arse, now here is a picture of you pulling abortion rights out of your arse.
Refer to Dobbs v. Jackson Health Services for more on this.