tom has some pretty good options,
want mine next time..
sell some far out puts 2-3 weeks out, close before earnings, no earnings risk, with only market risk in play and time decay on your side. along with room for fluctuation if you get caught In a bad case of holding through earnings.. I sold some naked and credit put spreads. also further out time gives you further out strikes.. you'll notice as earnings comes closer and closer what happens is the super wide far out strikes disappear, or become almost worthless where once they were say 1.00 or .75, and now they are .10 or .05 cents.. this is of course assuming people are buying insurance, you want the stock to stay flat, or rise some, and even if it drops some, time decay works in your favor to eat away at that price
or I love picking up scraps after earnings, my account is "maxed" so I picked up $500.. and for some odd reason these plays make me happier then the 50K plays.. every time Netflix earning is on I absolutely love coming in and scooping up those quarters as every made there dollars on it, I'm happy with minimal risk. Netflix is one of the few stocks I love coming in after earnings
another thing you can try is a super quick hit, of holding a day or weekend, you'll notice if everything stays flat.. that the price is decreased the next day.. holding even one day if you are scared can work to build tolerance and confidence, or just another tool in the arsenal if you so choose
hope you learned your lesson. seems like you don't want to play gamble bets.. which was you were betting it to move in your direction. that's a gamble bet, 50/50 chance. second, hope you learned NFLX is a super fun stock to play durning earnings. always gives me the tickles