Originally posted by aphexcoil
daniel_m,
Since when does pain = evil? Pail is a good indicator that you are very much alive. I have suffered both extreme physical and emotional pain. I've had a tooth pulled without novacaine, found out a long-term girlfriend was cheating on me with my best-friend, stood at the bedside of my father telling me, after his heart-attack, that I would have to be the man of the house at 15 years of age (he survived).
During the time periods they occured, the pain felt unbearable and unavoidable. If it was emotional, I wanted to run away but there was no where to flee to. If it was physical, I wanted to grab the dentist by his throat and curse at him.
In retrospect, every painful experience in my life turned out to be a positive growing experience. I wouldn't change any of those painful moments -- I am more of a man because of them.
Without pain, we have no contrast to pleasure. Funny how people so easily blame a god for pain but fail to neglect how the pain evolves them as a person -- all the while forgetting the immense pleasure that comes from being alive.
How often do you feel pain vs. pleasure? Seems to me like pain is but a small price to pay for such enormous pleasure of being alive.
Pain exists because, without it, learning would probably take much longer -- if it ever happened at all.
It is through pain that you are probably a better trader -- so don't compare pain to evil -- they are not one in the same.
Excellent post!
