Quote from desperateone:
I donât know about writing a book but I have no problems sharing a few insights that Iâve learned. Iâm sure itâs not anything that hasnât been already said or written but for what itâs worth, here goes (in no particular order):
- Trading is serious business. If someone is looking for a quick buck then I would advise another route. ...
-Personal growth as a trader. Many traders fall into the trap of only concerning themselves with the bottom line. Itâs a Catch 22, the only thing that matters in this industry is whether or not youâre making money. I found that the more I thought about the money the more I would push myself if I was down and at the same time would pull in the reigns when I was up. It doesnât matter how everyone else is progressing, it only matters if you are progressing. ...
-One day, one week, one month does not make a career. At my firm, there are 3 types of traders: cowboys who lose money, cowboys who make money and the real traders. The cowboys are the ones who almost always have to have positions on and they are always taking a âshot.â They figure that itâs not their money and if it works out, theyâll have a huge day, not concerning themselves with the consequences. They often have huge, inconsistent swings in their accounts. Granted some of these have been able to make good money but they certainly risk a whole bunch. Some people are attracted to this type of trading (read gambling) and it can be exciting but unless youâre seasoned and willing to take big hits then youâre not ready for this. ...
Eventually I found that the real traders (those who take big swings and those who donât) were more concerned about making a little bit everyday and when the opportunity presented itself, to capitalize on it. There are going to be times when the conditions are not conducive to good trading (not making money) and there are times when it is.
****In other words, these successful traders are willing to wait out the market until they saw their set-up and thus able to build their account one day at a time, one week at a time, one month at a time. ****
-There is more to life than trading. As been discussed several times in many threads, everyone has their own definition of happiness. My definition was that if I were a successful trader then I would be a happy person. I was wrong. I moved to New York for this opportunity and left my family, friends and life back out on the west coast....
****The point being that to succeed in anything in life, you have to be happy as a person. Work is work and you canât attach any self-worth to it and you canât take that feeling home as well. As traders, we basically donât contribute anything to society. I know some traders who volunteer at a soup kitchen every weekend to feel a sense of benefiting others. ****
Sorry for the length but Iâve had some time on my hands as of late. Anyhow I hope it helps others.