Why dont you find a hedge fund manager or trader and ask them directly versus coming on here and receiving information from strangers? There are thousands of them out there and you just need to get a hold of one. Go to the internet, find phone numbers, find emails. Start calling and be bold. Your not going to get a job asking the peanut gallery of elitetrader.com.
If your out chasing women then your not working efficiently. If you have money, then you wouldnt be attempting to pickup the freebies at the local bar. Instead, you would be traveling the world and paying some prostitute for the opportunity.
As immoral and dirty as that sounds, the freebie women in NYC are not free and they are, in fact, dirtier then the prostitutes you might find on some street in London, France, Thailand or even on
www.eros.com. The freebies will take up your time and drain you of your cash one way or the other. If you get them pregnant, then your obligated by law to pay their way otherwise you end up in Rikers. Disease? Aahhhh. The freebies are full of them.
Take my advice, hiring a prostitute in today's day and age isnt a bad idea even if it does cost you 300 bones. Dont chase the women, have them come to you.
Once you have been through a few women then the above logic makes total sense.