I detest losing, always have and always will. I design systems based on risk, keeping it as close to under 1% as possible, doesn't mean I always succeed, so it comes down to acceptance there after. I been at the "game" a very long time, I love the game and I do find it frustration to lose. I don't find anything Romantic about this, it is often long hours and at times a job to keep getting bad results, but one step closer to what I am trying to accomplish.
If you are trading for ANY OTHER reason than to make money, you are doing it for the wrong reasons.
All of this comes down to if you don't have a sound Trading Plan, you more often going to lose, plain and simple, nothing romantic throwing away several thousand bucks, it be better spent planning a cruise with your mate and having the time of your life than spend months of dreaming of being on a cruise after you make it.
I don't think about the money at all when I am trading, my platforms were written so I never know how each signal is doing, concentrate on being the monkey, remembering the rules, watching the clock, hearing Jeopardy theme song.
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