Quote from Turok:
I'm confused. Do you think one has an *obligation* to speak to a disrespectful cop respectfully, or do you think it's just a good idea from a practical standpoint?
JB
both
there are standards of behavior for every role
the kid made a *minor* infraction of these rules
the cop made a *very major* infraction of the rules
the former, does not justify the latter, but the latter does not nullify the former
on the rare occasion i get pulled over, i pull over right away. dome light on, keys out of the ignition, hands on the wheel with licence and registration in left hand. sunglasses off if it's daytime
don't make eye contact if reaching for anything
message? not "i'm kissing your ass or subservient to you", but "i'm not armed or going to make a surprise move, i'm a generally law abiding citizen, your safety is not in question, we can get down to business. this isnt the stop where you get shot. whatever i did, it's minor and i'm not hiding anything"
you say all that without opening your mouth at all
a cop told me this, that you're more likely to get a return courtesy, if your actions show a concern for your mutual safety in the stop