Quote from baro-san:
You can't avoid problems or opportunities, so you have to concentrate on how you deal with them. Quite often you can't know what is the right thing to do, so concentrate on doing what you think is right, and in the long run you'll get what you deserve for what you did. If you see that what life / God / universe gives you is not what makes you happy, it's very likely that you don't do what is right.
Don't blame others for what happens to you! It's useless.
