Can you elaborate on what you mean because it's difficult for me to see how that's connected to trading.
Trading is really no different to everyday life, but for some silly reason most who try think it is. Ignoring the usual text book stuff about the psychology of trading, in simple terms, if your everyday life is full of falsities, then so will your trading, as it can not be any other way.
If your wife is one of those demanding women who likes to keep up appearances and "be as good if not better" than the rest, this will affect how you set up and plan your future. So, instead of paying off your mortgage and loans asap, you will probably end up re-mortgaging several times and staying in debt for most of your working life.
One of the main keys to financial independence is to be debt free and not owe a cent to anyone. Pay your bills as they arise and do not let yourself get sucked into the big world of advertising and false security.
A good way to gauge if you are on the right track is to set a realistic age that you will retire at, and it should be well below 65. I know many people who have worked hard all of their life, came to pension age and only got a few years before they kicked the bucket.
When you are financially independent you think more clearly, and see things for what they really are. If you embark on trading to shorten your retirement age, unless you are debt free and have a thorough understanding of how the financial markets really work, then you will more than likely just waste your time and start to put yourself under pressure, which is exactly what you do not need.