A good policy and one that I wish had come naturally to me. Like trading, it is a learned behavior.
Yes, and we are not as tough as we think we are, which I suppose can be a good thing.
Habits are things that we acquire, mostly bad ones, and it is very hard to change a habit, as it takes years to learn them, and you can not reverse overnight what has taken years, it is just not possible.
I have watched the market very closely that last few weeks, on mobile phone during the day, and on laptop during the evening. The reason is simple, if you are not in tune with what is happening, then it becomes very hard to gauge what might happen next. Even though anything can happen at any time, be in no doubt what so ever, that the moves are controlled, be it with auto trading, or big institutional orders, but controlled they are, by those who have plenty of money.
So you do not part with your hard earned cash, I believe the best way to beat the controllers at their own game, is to watch them closely, and get a feel for what they are now doing, as they can change tactics quickly enough, but not in an instant - that only happens when a black swan arrives, and control is gone out the window for a short period.
Prudent risk management is a fundamental requirement for trading, as risking too much will cause you to lose too much, and this will end your trading career very quickly.
Add selective trading to the equation, and now you are getting somewhere, as, you should only be entering and exiting when the controllers are doing so, as they move price due to their sheer size.
Therefore, your ultimate goal, should be to identify when and where the controllers are at work. I have found they operate slightly different, with the open of the US markets being the time for the institutional control, and the remainder of the day being the auto trader control.
Thus, I have found you require a different approach to trade both effectively, and by using the different approaches, you are less likely to get caught out and make a good deal more winning trades than losing ones.
If you try and use the same approach for both, I am convinced your odds are drastically reduced, and if you get the approaches mixed up, you are even reducing them more!
You know why price moves differently, so all you need do is identify the difference, and once identified, it should be easier trade the differences. If you find you are getting in, and your stop is being hit very frequently, then you must stop, as you are entering at the completely wrong time, or have your stop way too close, or even both to make it worse!
Timing is everything when trading, so it is a good idea to concentrate on your timing, and not on squiggly lines and indicators that have no real association with the way the controllers work, for, they are not going to make public what they are doing, as that would be silly of them, to say the least.
Just some of my thoughts of course!
J_S