Okay, I've done this long enough to update. On upper body day I have been doing dumbbell fly's and tricep curls before going to bench. 2 sets of tricep, followed by 2 sets of fly's, 2 more sets of tricep and then 2 more sets of fly's. 12 reps for the fly's 10 for the triceps.
My bench has seen significant reduction in what I can lift. Putting a number to it, I used to be able to bench 200 lbs. four times. Good, clean reps. Now I struggle with 3 and the third one is sloppy. Go down to 180, used to do 8, now 6 and 5&6 are a struggle.
The good news is, my chest has taken on much better definition. My shoulders have pulled back some and my overall chest seems to have widened a bit. I am happy with those results. On the more curious side of things. All other areas, every single one, I have been able to add weight to the lift. Everything except the bench. I have also added pull ups and dips to my workout routine and I do those regardless of what other exercises I'm doing. I have also gained 8 lbs. without adding anything to my waist line. All in all, I'm satisfied with the results I'm getting from this particular method.