For me it is pretty simple who is good, do they do something to help (and without that prophlysising) that takes a good bit of their time. I don't make it more complicated than that.
So if abortions are your concern, offer to support girls or family who are struggling. For me I have expertise with hospices. But whatever it is, has to be quite a lot to alter the neuroplasticity in the brain so the courageous response is the automatic one.
It does help with the trading of course, I don't experience "the fear" in the usual manner anymore so never had any issue going from sim to live for example. I give roughly 40 percent of my income away and have since I was 19, there has always been plenty from the remaining to invest for me and mine. Maybe not truly good, who knows but respectable.
My mother who left America in the 60s taught me it is a hard place to be "good", pick your battles
Good job. So you know I do contribute both time and money to those causes in which I believe. People do, behave what they are. “ You’ll know the tree by it’s fruit.
But, to measure one’s self-worth in comparison to God’s righteousness is a lost cause. All of our “good deeds” won’t get us there. It takes something else, something that is not measured by man’s standards.
Time to get busy here around the Casa, wishing you a great day.