In general there traders have little understanding of risk management, including sizing positions That is why you have all these clueless idiots selling weekly naked options. A few of them reside on ET.
Further your remark is misleading It went from 4 to 400 in 10 month period. Your remark would have relevance if you used a much shorter periods. As to gaps you have to take sometimes large percentages losses. The problem is that your position size was too large a percentage of your capital considering the risk.
I'm not taking either side but I have to ask, who cares? You sell naked options, you accept the responsibility.
Also GME was the only equity I know that went 100x in 10 months. What other stock did that? Not even TSLA. Don't move the goalposts.