Quote from ChkitOut:
Thats another problem.
I don't know any actual traders. I know of internet success's, the land of make believe. But I don't know any living breathing, i can reach out and touch, actual traders.
Yes, I see successful food establishments all around me so i know if i tried to open one and failed, im just not good enough. But traders at home making a killing trading futures? I dont know any, so no, i cannot say its just me.
There was a thread that was deleted that showed Al brooks home/office/company address and it was worth about 200 grand. My plumber lives in a more expensive home. Yeah, i know, many millionaires live modestly, but again, no evidence of success.
http://www.corporationwiki.com/Cali...bble-Creek-Dr-Rocklin-CA-95765-a41490890.aspx
The reason why you don't know any traders in person is maybe you have not made an effort to meet any real traders in your area.
You do know ET has a "Hook Up" thread for you to meet other traders "in person" in your area. Also, you can meet traders in your area based on other criteria (e.g. type of trading platform being used, type of charting program being used and so on).
For example, the first group of traders I met in person was via joining an "easylanguage tradestation group" in the city I lived in back when TradeStation was known as Omega Research. There was 15 of us...meetings once a month.
Also, your mentioning of phrases like "traders at home making a killing" is a further indication that you may have "unrealistic goals" considering newbie traders aren't making a killing or you're thinking about one of those Dukascopy audited traders making millions while ignoring the fact that they are well capitalized and tons of years of trading experience.
As to Al's home or office address thread. I remember that thread well and it was pointed out in that thread its not uncommon for "self-employed" to do such. For example, I know an architect in the Seattle area with his business address in a house worth about 300k but he doesn't live in the house. It's his business address.
In contrast, he lives in a 800k luxury condo about 15 minutes driving distance from his home office. My point, you have unrealistic goals an expectations and your
quest for evidence seems to have gotten you
stuck inside the box.
For example, lets pretend Mr. Brooks lives in a trailer park in a 30k rental home. Yet, one of his former students lives in an upscale suburban house worth 1.2 million dollars. Based upon your observation skills, Mr. Brooks must be a good (but poor) teacher considering one of his own students is now doing very well and making a killing in the markets. In reality, the student may be losing and married to a rich women that supplements the students dream.
My point, you really don't know anything about anybody based upon what house they live and using such as a measurement gets back to the typical newbie expectations. Therefore, if you're the type that prefers to use a house they own, a car they own, school their kids went too, looks of the wife, restaurants he eats at as a measurement tool for his abilities...good luck with that.
To cement my point. My best friend lives in a 250k house in a modest Indiana neighborhood. She's 48 years old, never married, never will be via choice, always been single except for a few boyfriends, adopted 2 young kids...travels the world in the summer with them. Yet, she's a multimillionaire living comfortably off her inheritance. In contrast, she has 3 siblings via similar like inheritance living like millionaires in million dollar mansions in upscale neighborhoods...one sibling in particular resides at a Vale ski resort, kids went to expensive schools and currently her husband is unemployed and has been such for the past 4 years.
Based upon your observations, that unemployed guy living in that million dollar home at Vale ski resort must be a successful business guy until you get to know him personally...finding out he's unemployed and married to a millionaire.
