Quote from lesserfool:
My cousin is one of those ones awaiting benefits. He broke his back in a motorcycle accident. Meanwhile, his wife has left him. What would you say to him?
Sad situation. In many "developing" countries, families loyally take care of their members to a far greater degree than in the US, and maybe this is in part due to a LACK of a government safety net. This seems to have the unexpected benefit of people being less apt to treat their family like crap (although that's by no means always the case).