Sit down Clubber Lang as I tell you about the facts of life.
When you are a young guy, of course, you are going to get a lot of women. I was very good looking in my 20s and had a strong build. I benchpressed about 300 lbs...that was my max. As I grew older, working out no longer was about looking good, but simply maintaining health. At some point in your life, those looks do fade no matter how much time in the gym you spend. Grey hair, weight gain, health issues, baldness etc. all become a reality at some point.
In NYC, women are either after your looks, your money or a combination of both. To a certain extent its about personality too.
One thing is for certain. Even if you are a good looking young guy with lots of cash and great personality, there is no way you will be able to get it by different women every day, every week or even every month. You might be lucky to get 6-8 different women a year and thats as a result of trying hard. There are also very few women in the city who will let you fuck them and not take them out. There is a cost associated with each "date" and I would say you will be lucky not to spend at least 100 dollars.
You could go down the marriage route, but as many here and elsewhere can attest, that route is not always the best path.
I am not insecure about your comments in reference to myself because I know you will be in my shoes one day. Its not a matter of if, but when. When it does happen to you...when you too have to go for blood tests every 6 months and monitor your sugar daily...when you too have to struggle about with some type of health condition...remember me and remember this thread. It will be your reality, I can guarantee it.