NoDoji made a post on CL Redux recently... I'll post it below.
For me, I think the issue is in the area of confidence.
I also think that in my own case I lack confidence because I've not taken the time to put in some of the fundamental building blocks necessary to build that confidence.
In NoD's post she is saying that it takes a few months to build this skill, another few months to build another skill.
Alas... I see I tried to short cut that process. Why prove a setup or pattern? They are in books, Al Brooks has them and he's a guru. Look no further. So I can skip over the months to prove that.
Backtest MFA & MEA? I can do that in a few hours.
Develop trading rules? They are in a book. Why repeat what is already done? Hey, I just cleared another couple of months work. I"m ready to go. Whoo hoo.
And so on. To be more specific... A big part of your question has to do with trade management. I think Ammo was exactly right in his response, but how do you get there?
I never grasped the concept until reading NoD's post how ALL trade management depends on the MFE & MAE that comes out of how ***I myself*** make entires at the hard right edge. No one can do this for me and you can't get it out of a book.
Backtesting MFE/MAE really did me little good. I keep scratching my head over why I put together strings of winning days, then suddenly I get off track. One way to describe that is lack of confidence and I stop taking winning trades, or only take a little piece of a winning trade.
I am looking at my lack of confidence as I short changed myself on developing my own data for MFE"s & MAE's BASED ON ENTRIES I SEE AND TAKE at the hard right edge. Not based on backtesting.
As a further hint, I've stopped placing even paper trades and instead am taking screen shots of where I'd enter... the screen shot proves it. Then I go back later and put in the MFE/MAE. I find that putting in a stop and target somehow limits my ability to clearly see the chart movements.
You get the drift.
Hope this helps. Sorry about the length of this post, but you are getting two for one!
here is NoD's post: (and thank you NoD for saying it again and agian until it soaks in!)
Here is my cautionary message to anyone wanting to trade CL intraday because you've looked at those charts and seen all those nice price swings and you think of how much money you could make trading just a few contracts.
Take the time to dissect every price swing of .30 or more every day for at least a couple months worth of days.
If you find patterns that lead into these tradable price swings more often than not, and you can recognize them at the hard right edge of price action, then you have the first "gift" necessary for profitable manual trading: pattern recognition skills.
Then analyze the max favorable and adverse price excursion (MFE & MAE) using various trade entry methods, for each appearance of the positive expectancy patterns you found. Keep doing this until you end up with what appears to be the potential for net profitable trading setups.
If you can do this for a couple months worth of trading days, then you have the second "gift" necessary for profitable trading: work ethic.
Next, use the data you collected to set up up rules for trade entry, stop placement, and profit-taking, and apply your rules to simulated live trading for a couple months. Trade every appearance of your chosen setup(s) and manage each trade according to your rules.
If you can do this successfully for a couple months, then you have the third "gift" necessary for profitable trading: discipline.
Once you obtain sim trading results that are in line with your back test results, trade your plan with the smallest size possible in a live trading account, trading every appearance of your setups and managing each trade according to your rules.
If you can do this successfully, then you have the final "gift" necessary for profitable trading: a trader's mindset.
If you do attain that level of success, then pay it forward.
ADD: It took me waaay more than a couple months to go through each of those steps because I was not "gifted". But I did have a huge work ethic