Quote from QuikrRetirement:
Actually, the reason I don't like the "everyone chip in an equal amount" is, when some people get a salad, but some other freeloaders get a steak, 2-3 alcoholic drinks, dessert, appetizer, and expect the salad folks to subsidize them.
A couple of times at these functions, I did not eat and just said "sorry, not really hungry, now."
There are 3 magic words you can say that will make sure everyone pays their fair share. "Seperate checks, please"
No need to break out the calculators or anything. Give the waiter an extra buck tip for the effort. Problem solved.