Just read the entire thread, pretty interesting and only have a few things to add.
First off, I can't imagine why there was talk about averaging down and whether stops should even be used. Trading the spread is still trading, the rules still apply. It's a losing game, if the position you are in is incorrect, get out, dont hope! I believe Neutral was trading with stops from almost the beginning and was successful for over a year (I don't know whether he is still successful, lets hope so) while others were struggling and complaining about lack of volatility. I also don't understand why the reluctance to trade trends, if a spread seems to be fluctuating around a mean, then look to catch a move towards the mean, if a spread is trending, trade with the trend. Another thing that I wish to have some discussion on is using options. Both on using options instead of buying/shorting underlying in position trades on pairs and maybe even trading spreads between options for different strike/months/underlying? The idea just came to me while reading the thread and was wondering if any of those more experienced with options or spread trading could tell me if there was any use to these strategies.