I take no offense. Remember that there are many different trading styles. I trade the 6E futures contract short term based primarily on the depth of market and time & sales. That's the way I see the market best. It may or may not work for others and by no means am I suggesting it is "the only way to trade".
My "safety stop" is set at 10 ticks. I should have said my INITIAL stop rarely gets hit. I move the stop down as the trade matures and often it will get hit on my "runner" contract.
There is no reason for me to stay in a trade if the reason I entered is no longer present. I enter based on the Depth of market and tape primarily. There are other things I look at but the final trigger is what I am seeing in the orders.
Stalling right after entry - If I enter and it just ticks around the entry point for too long why stay in it? This is indicating to me that there isn't a clear direction and I misread the order flow. I would rather take a scratch than give up 4 or five ticks. If the trade stalls after it has moved in my favor I will stay in but tighten up the stop.
Not taking my full stop - I enter a trade and it starts ticking against me. I misread the order flow. Say I enter and it ticks against me and back towards my trade. It keeps ticking against me but each time it does it ticks back less towards my entry and then goes a little further away. This will be clear on the depth of market and tape. Instead of seeing orders pulling in my favor I see orders stacking. Should I wait until it goes all the way to my stop? Each tick I lose is 6.25 and my trading costs are 4.28 for a round trip. I can always get back in later.
I use Jigsaw trading tools. They had an interesting presentation recently called "kill it or keep it" that explains the concept better than I can.
I used to use "hope" as a money management strategy until I realized it doesn't work. I am looking at every trade while I am in a position.