I think it is safe to conclude that this guy is injecting himself into this case and has actually nothing whatsoever to do with it. Weird attention whore. I knew something was off, couple points this guy made simply did not add up.
You later state this is not your attorney just one you spoke with. No attorney would go about offering legal advice until he was properly retained. Also you stated you ow $55,000 initially and at another point $35,000. If you are in fact being truthful you now have a sketchy attorney a $20,000 moving target.